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Get Your Boyfriend Back – Winning Your Boyfriend Back After a Break Up

Are you looking for methods on winning your boyfriend back after a break up? Is it really possible to get my boyfriend back, even if he is ignoring me and I seem to be the only one trying?

Perhaps, you have already broken up with your boyfriend but you still have feelings for him and want to get back together. First, it is important to take a closer examination of your situation.

When did you break up with him? Is it only few days ago? If it is only a few days ago, you probably shouldn’t start contacting him so early. It is best to wait at least 30 days after the break up before calling him again.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    how can i get my boyfriend back after breaking up with him?
    i broke up with my boyfriend. weve dated for over 2 years. i thought he was cheating on me, and i asked him what he was doing, but he didnt want to say. we had a horrible arguement, so i broke up with him.

    turns out that he was trying to get me a ring to propose to me. how can i talk to him and get him back? it was a horrible mistake. hes so upset becuase hes ignoring my calls.

    • ANSWER:
      3 Tips To Win Your Ex Boyfriend back

      Tip #1) Don’t Act Crazy

      When you are trying to get over a break up, you may look a little nuts at times. This is because of the feelings that you may still have. They are all raging and you are not sure what you should do, now that you are not with your boyfriend any more. Don’t act like you don’t have a brain, because this will drive him away, fast!

      Tip #2) Take A Minute

      You should take some time to figure out what the cause of your break up is, this will help you to get over it and have a clear head when you work it out with him. You have to leave the past behind so that you and him can move on with your relationship.

      Tip #3) Let Him Date

      If he is dating already, don’t worry about it. In fact, let him! This is a great way for him to see what he is missing about you and how you treated him before. He will realize that he wants to be with you and not that other girl anymore.

  2. QUESTION:
    How to get boyfriend back after fresh break up?
    My boyfriend of 9 months and I just broke up last night What i'm asking is, If I plan on getting him back at some point what should i do? -- cut all contact (no more walking together in the halls or IMing on facebook?) Will trying to remain as friends backfire on me if I want to win him back? How can I get him back after this breakup? I'm really confused. any help's appreciated.

    • ANSWER:
      Y did he want out and y did being with you or in this relationship make him feel he needs to b independant or Single instead?? Ask him that.
      I know its because of somethig else or he doesnt want to say..

  3. QUESTION:
    how do I get my boyfriend back? :( ?
    my ex boyfriend and I dated for a year and 5 months and he broke up with me three days ago. we had been fighting really bad for a while, but I never thought he would actually break up with me. He did not talk to me at all the day after he left me. and then yesterday I finally texted him and I was begging him to come back to me and he was kind of acting like he wanted to get back together. but then I called him last night and he started a fight over nothing and he was really mean to me and told me to shut up because he’s tired of hearing my voice. this morning he actually texted me first and told me good morning, but he’s being a little mean. I asked him if he has been talking to girls since we broke up and he got mad and said it was his business whether he was or not and that we’re over and it doesnt matter…whenever I tell him I’m giving up because it seems like he will never come back, he just says he doesn’t care. :(
    I don’t know what I should do…I really love him so much, I’ve never felt this way about someone else. He always promised me that no matter what he would never leave me, but he did :( and I need him…I hate just being friends with him and I’m tired of him saying he doesn’t care about anything and being mean to me…i want him back soo bad but i don’t know how to get him to come back? :(

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  4. QUESTION:
    How do i get my ex boyfriend back after i broke up with him? ?
    About a year ago we broke up because i wanted to see what it was like to be single. I loved him so much 6 years together. I started dating somebody else for 1 year but talked to my ex the whole time. He tried getting back with me i wanted to but didnt. He move accross the state because i wouldnt take him back. Im single now and realize i love him more than ever. How do i get him to believe me that i really want to be with him?

    • ANSWER:
      Well, you guys have quite a history! I have been there.. I was with a guy for 7 years, but we split, cuz he didn’t treat me so well and I dated a guy for a year and now just four months ago we split and I truly miss him and want him back! On the other hand, my ex of 7 years regrets everything he has done to me and desperately wants me back, but feelings are no longer there.. But I sympathize with your pain! My first instinct was for you to go to him, perhaps surprise him! Let him know where ever he may be, you will go! He is probably scared of you hurting him again, and is unsure of being back with you… Show him you will not so much go out of your way, but go through all costs to show you’re sorry and love him and want to be with him! You taking a leep of faith like that is really scary and you have to be strong in case of rejection, but how else would you know, and at the same time really go the extra mile for him. I am sure he was there for you through your relationship perhaps to console you through the good and bad times with your most recent ex… I don’t know but just throwin’ that out there, and if so then he went out of his comfort zone then for you too… Allow him to share his feelings with you and be understanding, and reassure him that over this period of time you have realized what a mistake you have made, and how much you love him and also all the past that you guys have shared!!!… Be strong, I know it’s hard and I hope he is still willing to at least consider the idea of being back together! Good luck for reals, I hope all goes well for you in your situation. If he doesn’t though want to get back together though at this time then let him go for a while. It sucks to hear and I Hate It, but if it’s meant to be, then it will be!! =)

  5. QUESTION:
    how can i succsessfully get my ex boyfriend back after he broke up with me?
    anyone know of any successful ways to get your ex back after he breaks it off? any tips that work. help me please

    • ANSWER:
      In the world I live in, girls are the ones who don’t take back. I’d take my ex back instantly. I’m the one who broke up with her too, cold world.

  6. QUESTION:
    How do I get my ex boyfriend back after we have been broken up for 6 months?
    My ex-boyfriend and I dated for 7 months. We were good friends but from past stupid things I have done, we don’t talk that much. Our plan was to break up for a while n get back together; but now we only talk on occasion. I still miss him a lot and I want to get him back, I just don’t know how I go about doing that.

    • ANSWER:
      Hi Shauna,

      Do you have these symptoms?

      -Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

      -Loss of appetite

      -Binge eating for comfort

      -Calling your ex several times a day

      -Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

      -Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see they called

      -Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

      -Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

      -Feeling massively depressed

      -Feeling urges to spy on them

      -Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

      -Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

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  7. QUESTION:
    HOW TO GET A BOYFRIEND BACK AFTER FORCED TO BREAK UP WITH HIM AND MISSING HIMAND NOWBEING TOLD YOU CAN SEE HIM?
    okay so i was going out wiht this guy for a while and my mom diddnt like him beacuse he smoked pot and sutch and she said i couldnt date him ad she said i had to break up wiht him or i would be grounded until i broke up with him so i did and i realley liked him too and i have been crying and crying becuas ei really liked him and i miss him and my mom is now saying i can tell you really liked him and you can see him just dont have sex with him and sutch and dont smoke pot wiht him and i started crying even more because now she is saying i can go out wiht him and i dont know how to get him back how can i get him back because now my mom is telling me i can date him now how do i do that i really like him alot i miss him and i broke up with him yesterday and i want him back give me advice on how to do this btw i am 15 and he is 17 we are both in high school and o to the same school help me no mean comments please

    • ANSWER:
      uh well id say you could try to arrange a time when you to can have some time to talk and just explain yourself to him and if he understands then he loved you and ull get back together if he doesnt understand and just blows off everything you say then he wasnt right for you and you honestly should just move on.

  8. QUESTION:
    how can i get my ex back or should i move on ?
    me and my ex boyfriend broke up 2 1/2 months ago, i still see him because we have a baby together, But i want him back, We got back together after breaking up for 2 days and he told me he just didn’t feel the same about me, and that he felt like things just weren’t going to work out. I feel as if he just wants to be left alone he doesn’t want any responsibility. He sees the baby 2 times per week and he get’s her every other weekend well or you i say he’s mom get’s her. He lives with his mom and dad they don’t make him pay any bills and he can do what ever he wants. We had such a nice family but he just wants to act as if he’s a little kid always playing video games,soccer ect. i feel as if he should have time for me and the baby in his life. Some of my friends ask me why do i even want him back, But i really want my daughter to grow up next to her father + i still love him, i am not sure what to do any more he knows how much i love him that’s why he’s acting this way or maybe he just doesn’t care but i just don’t want to face it…. Please i will like to know what you think what can i do to get him back or should i just move on ????

    • ANSWER:
      Move on

  9. QUESTION:
    how to get ure boyfriend back after he breaks up with u?
    my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me..he says he still loves me and cares for me..and he wants to be there for me…just he’s not ready for a relationship..but i really love him..and i want to do my best to help him get ready to have a relationship..im afraid he’ll like some1 else by then…i’m really depressed right now:(…please help…

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  10. QUESTION:
    How do i break up with my boyfriend after we just got back together?
    I just broke up with him yesterday n today we got back together because I thought it was the right thing to do but now i realized i did NOT want to get back together..please help!

    • ANSWER:
      Just like the first time you dumped him…

      OMFG I’m such a fucking genius sometimes I think my brain will explode because I feel too intelligent! D: Am I gonna die?!?

  11. QUESTION:
    How do I get my boyfriend back after he broke up with me?
    he broke up with me yesterday because i told him to fuck off in one of our fights the night before. normally everything is perfect and we are really happy, but we get in stupid little arguments. He said he still likes me alot and it was just as hard for him as it was for me to break up. he thinks our relationship will grow if we are apart for a while but i know he doesn’t wanna break up. i honestly know he doesn’t want to, but there is something pushing him to make that final decision. i just need to know what it is that’s convincing him that its a good idea to break up when he still likes me, and how i can get him back.

    • ANSWER:
      Do NOT whine and cry about how much you want him back.

      If you want him back, act like you don’t.

      Go get a new hair style, some new clothes and start going out with the girls.

      Don’t be so available for him.

      Guys want what they can’t have. So play a little bit hard to get.

      ~v

  12. QUESTION:
    How do I gain my appetite back after this break up?
    It’s been about a week since my boyfriend broke up with me. He was my best friend and now he’s gone.

    I don’t have an appetite anymore. How do I get it back? I don’t want to lose weight.

    • ANSWER:
      I disagree with the previous answer, suggesting that you force feed yourself. That is completely the wrong approach.

      You are going through a period of “mourning,” just as if someone died. You mourn the loss of your best friend, you mourn the loss of all the time you invested in the relationship, and you mourn the loss of what might have been. It is completely natural that this will take a physical toll on your body. Just let it express itself, even if your appetite is down. It is the quickest way to get through the mourning period.

      What you need to do instead is make sure that you are eating a healthy, balanced diet. You may not be hungry, but have a little fruit, some veggies, some milk, and some grains. If you can eat meat, eat a little. A small hamburger or a piece of chicken will give you all the protein you need in a day. If you can’t deal with meat, go for some peanut butter or cheese. The point is not how much you eat, but whether you get the nutrition your body needs.

      Meanwhile, this would be a good time to do some exercise, if you can. Again, it is about getting healthy and getting your body back into rhythm, not about losing weight or building muscles. But exercise can help you through the mourning process. Even more important, it may stimulate your appetite, as long as you don’t overdo it. If you live in a cold weather area, consider joining a gym, at least for a month or two. If you can still get outside, a 30 minute walk is enough, if you do it briskly. You should get enough exercise to be pleasantly tired, but not so much that you feel exhausted.

      Bottom line: Eat right, get some exercise, and treat your body right. You need to get past the mourning stage, and then you will start to feel okay about the world again. Good luck, honey. I wish you well.

  13. QUESTION:
    How can i get my boyfriend back after i broke up from a mistake?
    Hi everyone yesterday my boyfriend had some family problems and he lives 3hrs away from me. he agreed to come spend the weekend with me like every week. his mum fell and had to be rushed to hospital she is ill. i was a bitch to him and sad and kept blaming myself saying i think its best our relationship is over because you should be there looking after her.

    we didn’t talk all the way back to mine and when i go out the car i gave him my engagement ring and just said i hope your mums ok. i called him two hours later as i regretted what i said but he didn’t call or text me all day or night.
    what can i do to make it up to him.

    • ANSWER:
      Giving back the ring probably did more damage than anything you said tbh so here’s what I suggest.

      You’ve tried calling as it’s a safe, quick yet personal approach (easy to do from your own home but implies having to actually dial and want to talk) and it’s not worked – I have to be honest here, understandably.
      All you can do now is try to find out when he’ll next be home (maybe after work) and turn up at his door and ask to talk to him. DON’T ask for the ring back as it’ll imply two things: either you only wanted to be with him in the first place because you wanted to get married (not necessarily to him); or you only came really to ask him for your jewellery back. Just ask him to at least hear you out and apologise to him for everything – but only if you mean it. I know girls always say they can be b*tches every now and then but I know plenty who have turned themselves around when they meet a guy they really care about, so don’t just apologise if the next time he has some kind of problem you’re going to dump your anger on him as well all over again.
      Ask him to take you back – and say you’ll be happy to just be dating again. You two need to rediscover why you were together in the first place. There is EVERY chance he’ll be INCREDIBLY guarded around you now, afraid to share problems with you or try to initiate intimacy as he’s probably scared of your temper – which brings me onto another point: you MIGHT have anger problems – but don’t use that as a defence; nowadays everyone has a condition to blame – a child is badly behaved in school, IMMEDIATELY he/she has ADHD when in reality it’s most probably just poor parenting. What you need to do before you consider therapy is monitor yourself – when you feel your anger rising STOP and take a breath. Let it out slowly and you’ll find your mood will soften enough to think clearly. If there’s still an issue to be raised THEN is the time to raise it – but actually talk, rather than resorting to a slanging match.
      It’s clear his mother means a great deal to him – and quite rightly so. I’m sure it would mean the world to him if once you two are back on speaking terms, you offered to go with him to see her. Believe me, coming from a relationship myself where my ex HATED my mother and vice versa, I can tell you that there is NOTHING a guy likes more than to see the two most important women in his life getting along – or at least making some kind of effort to – but don’t make it ott and fake.
      And DON’T jump into bed with him immediately either – it sends another VERY demeaning message: It’s ok if I’m a b*tch to you because all I have to do is take you to bed and you’ll forgive me.
      At some point, if he gives you back the ring, accept it, but don’t be waiting for it all the time or you’ll again start to fuel the fire that could lead to you making another rash decision again.

  14. QUESTION:
    How do i get my boyfriend back after i broke up with him?
    My ex boyfriend is an aquarius and i am a cancer female. It was love, romance, fun, and adventure from the first day we met each other. We wanted to try and make it work even though he lived 4 hours away from me. We had a long distance relationship for 6 months, and there were a lot of ups and downs toward the last 2 months of the relationship. I was getting bad feelings inside about out relationship because we werent seeing or talking to each other as often as we used to and i missed the romance. he did some things that dis pleased me and i reacted over the top about it and it changed our relationship. he started treating me differently and i reacted by breaking up with him but i miss him a lot and i want things to go back to the beginning when i actually felt he cared about me through his actions, What do i do to develop a relationship with him to where i can feel that he at least cares about me as a best friend? i miss him.

    • ANSWER:
      The thing is, no matter how much yow ant things to go back to how they were, they’re not. Once things change, they usually stay that way.

  15. QUESTION:
    how can i get my ex boyfriend back after i broke it up?
    me n my ex boyfriend were together for almost a year then he popped the question. I was so happy then a few months later i broke up with him i cant remember why he stopped talking to me then a month or two he started talking to me again. I was so happy then we started saying we missed when we were together. Then a month or so i asked him if he wanted to go out again he said he would think then two days later i am on facebook an his profile says he’s taken. Its hard to talk to him i really want him bad it hurts to be without him i cant do anything ans all i think about is him. Please help me get back together with him.

    • ANSWER:
      Well, it seems to me that you were bored with him when the two of you were together, so why do you want him back now if you didn’t want him then? You’re the one that screwed everything up with him, by ending the relationship. If your ex-boyfriend doesn’t want to take you back and give the relationship a second chance, you’re going to have to live with it. Besides, you have no choice but to accept his decision and respect it. You’ve made your bed, now lay in it.

  16. QUESTION:
    how do i get my ex boyfriend back after he broke up with me?
    long story short. my mom never wanted us to be together then she found out and started to lock me in the house so no one could get in or out without her keys. when DCFS told her to take them off she then got a restraining order against him.long story short me and my bf fought it and eventually my mom came around to let me be with him. everything was great but then he told me he hasnt been happy in 7 months.(weve been dating for 16months) and that was becuase i dont do nice things such as cook for him and rub his back. so the tuesday after xmas he broke up with me bc “it didnt seem like i wantd to do nice things for him to feel loved” so i told him i would and i promised and now he only wantsto be “friends” mind u this guy has my virginity and i love him more than anything. so how can i fix this? i dont want all our strggles to be for nothing

    • ANSWER:
      Stay away.

      I’ve had a girls tried to come back to me — and sometimes I used them out of convenience — because I could.

      You don’t want to go there.

  17. QUESTION:
    Legal information about how to get my dog back after my boyfriend has broken up with me??
    My boyfriend of 3.5 years decided that he wanted to be with someone else and kicked me out of our apartment. My parents didnt let me take the dog that night (5 days ago). He put a protection order on me so I couldnt come around( i am not an abusive person he just made up lies) . but the dog in question is mine. What can and cant he do with the dog. How do I go about getting my baby back?
    What can I do??

    Thanks for all who help me fix this
    God bless
    Can he call the pound on the dog? and How long do I have before I can no longer have access to the dog?

    • ANSWER:
      You can prove the dog is yours if you have documents proving that you paid for his shots and vet visits, and that the former owner (or pound) acknowledged you as the new owner. That is sufficient I believe.

      .

  18. QUESTION:
    How can I get back with my ex boyfriend after breaking up with me just yesterday?
    I need some help, some professional help. My ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, because he felt like it was the right thing to do. I knew that he was going to break up with me, so I was prepared for that day. I cried when he told me. We cuddled our last time together. He told me how it was hard for him to make a choice because he loved me too much. I was hoping to stay with him for awhile, but my dreams have been knocked down. I really want him back. He was the only one my heart ever pumped faster for, he has been the best boyfriend I’ve had. He wasn’t like the others I use to date. He was more special, I had a feeling that he was the right one I would marry. I’m still crushed about him breaking up with me, and its the same for him. He doesn’t miss me to much because he always had the thought of breaking up with me but he just couldn’t do it cause he loved me. So if there is anyone out there that could help me get back with my ex boyfriend, I would really appreciate it. We’re friends now and I know that’s the step to bringing him back to me. I’m still going to be jealous if he dates another girl. My heart still beats for him, and not for any other guy. Please do help me.

    • ANSWER:
      Tell him what you just told the entire Yahoo community.

      Talk. Like, ACTUALLY talk. Not that cute, cliche, fluffy talk. Sit down with him and go through your relationship.

  19. QUESTION:
    how do I get my ex-boyfriend/babydaddy back after a chaotic 2 year break-up?
    I feel kind of ridiculous but the saying “you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone” is ringing in my head. Me and my ex were high school sweethearts and carried our relationship through college, but college is where we began to have problems. At 20 I got pregnant and things became explosive, we were back and forth he cheated, I cheated but we loved each other and were just extremely immature. After our daughter was born, in ridiculous attempt to force him to marry me, I used my daughter as a pawn and would often tell him, we were a packaged deal and if he didn’t want me, he couldn’t be apart of our daughter’s life. We battled in court, I was granted full custody and he saw her on occasions (when I’d let him). The chemistry between us never left, but in a desperate attempt to get over him, I up and moved out of state. Over the first year he kept in contact through skype and phone but as time has passed he won’t call his daughter or return her calls. He called me 3 weeks ago and said because he’s been so hurt by the things I’ve done in and out of our relationship that he doesn’t want to even be in contact. This crushed me because the truth is all the damage I’ve done was out of selfishness and, really, all I ever wanted was for us to be together again. I last saw him in May and he stated that he’d give up everything to have us back but then as soon as we left the airport, he disappeared again. Can someone please talk some sense into me. Can I get him back or is hope lost? Everything in me wants to fly out there and tell him how I feel, but the other part of me doesn’t want to push it. I’ve put him through a lot….

    • ANSWER:
      You may have broken the record for doing so many stupid things in a single paragraph. As the old saying goes, “the road to hell is paved with good intentions”! What you have to do at this point is center yourself, get the chaos out of your life and do what is best for both you and your baby.

      First, you have to get your baby’s father issue resolved. As much as you may not want to hear this, it is very likely you two being a couple is not in the best interest for any of you. You obviously have a very explosive relationship with him, and both of you have retorted to doing horrible things to each other. You two may love each other, but you can’t change each other. You both do things to hurt the other person as a way to deal with anger and pain, any you both obviously have no ability to live as a healthy and honest couple. You should never have taken his child away to another state, and if you are not settled where you are, you should move back so that he can bond with his daughter.

      The fact that he has been able to slowly pretend that his daughter no longer exists tells you a lot about his personal quality as a person and as a father. This child is as much his as it is yours, yet for him to not constantly be in touch with her or take Skype calls to talk to her is unconscionable. For you to want to get back with a father who can do that is just as bad or worse. You chose to have a baby, now you must do what is in the best interest of that child.

      Look, you are in your early 20′s, so you have tons of opportunities ahead of you. You need to grow up, take responsibility for the past, and start planning for your future. DO NOT ever move a man into your home without knowing everything about him, (even do a background check), be the best person you can be and best parent you can be. Put yourself in a situation to meet good decent people, and give yourself the chance to have a great life ahead of you. You have made mistakes, but we all have. How you choose to live your future is up to you. Start out by putting the past behind you. Don’t ever forget that this great love of your life, this great guy, ultimately showed he had no character by ultimately emotionally deserting his child. Please always remember that, and don’t look back. For all the mistakes you made, you always made sure your daughter was taken care of, and you were always there for her. Best of luck!

  20. QUESTION:
    how to deal with getting back with boyfriend after he had sex with other girls when broken up?
    Me and my boyfriend broke up for about 2-3 months i seen him with one girl, know that he slept over at another girls house but nothing happened, know that he had sex with another girl while broken up. i kissed one guy when broken up, we are back together know he moved to another city where i am to be with me left his life but still i find it hard to forget and fear its taking over my life thinking about it.

    • ANSWER:
      you two were broken up, it isn’t any of your business ….

  21. QUESTION:
    How can I get my boyfriend back after a “break”?
    My boyfriend & I have been together for about 7 months, & we’ve been through a lot in that short period of time; an unplanned pregnancy, then a miscarriage. Prior to these events our relationship was fantastic, the chemistry was on fire, we clicked on so many important levels, we agreed to talk threw our issues instead of just breaking up, we both really thought this relationship was going to go the distance. Since my miscarriage we’ve had some troubles, we’ve had a couple of major fights, & tried to change some minor things in the relationship, however a few days ago, a small issue blew-up into a huge fight & he said he wanted to take a break. So, now we’re 4 days into what is suppose to be a weeklong break where we’re not talking or seeing each other. I want us to work it out & I honestly think we can, as I now understand why he needed this time, as I’ve come to realize that I too needed time alone. I didn’t know if anyone had any ideas as to how to restart our relationship?

    • ANSWER:
      You’ve certainly been through a lot. It’s difficult to deal with a relationship that has seen a great deal of traumatic events in the later parts. You should allow him his break. He needs time to think, as do you. However, make it last for about a week. Then call him up, and tell him how much you love him to reassure him, that your feelings haven’t changed. Afterwards, you need to seriously sit down with him and have a heart to heart about what’s wrong with your relationship.

  22. QUESTION:
    Would you get back with your boyfriend after being broken up a month even if he was with another girl?
    I left my fiance for smoking weed, and a month later he got a new girlfriend and started telling her he loves her. before he got his new girlfriend i told him i was having sex with another guy and that i had a new boyfriend. so i mean, i cant really blame him for getting another girlfriend right? but its just the fact that he actually had feelings for her so fast. so then his girlfriend i guess didnt hang out with him enough and i was just about to have his baby in the hospital, so the night i had her he left her and got back with me. the thing is i am having really hard feelings about him being with that girl and i break up with him everyday for it and then get back together with him. its like i cant make up my mind! am i stupid for staying with him after that?? does he really love me if he had feelings for another girl? i feel a little crazy, like my mind flip flops. its not really about forgiving him, its about i feel unloved in the relationship because of that other girl. on the other hand though, we WERE broken up for a month, and i did say messed up things to him. but i mean, how can he have feelings for another girl when we were together for eight months and i was pregnant with his kid? i feel like he would have stayed with her if she hung out with him more, but i cant say that i guess…please tell me your opinion

    • ANSWER:

  23. QUESTION:
    Did an ex boyfriend want you back after breaking up w/ you????? PLEASE ANSWER!!!!!?
    has a bf ever broken up w/ you and you tried to get him back by pursuing him (calling/texting/e-mailing/ect) only to be shot down… but then when you completly stopped trying and left him alone… he wanted you back???

    1. how long were you together?
    2. how long did you use the above methods to try to get him back and how often (daily)?
    3. how long did it take of you leaving him alone for him to take notice and want you back?

    my bf of 2 months broke up w/ me almost 2 weeks ago. i have tried endlessly to contact him w/ no real success. i am now planning to just totally leave him alone and wonder if he will take notice miss me & want me back. the one did we did speak last wednesday we almost got back together… got close anyway…. but then he talked to his stupid jealous overprotective brother and changed his mind. Maybe a little space and REAL risk of losing me is what he needs?

    any input & your experience would be really appreciated.

    • ANSWER:
      ok my story is practically the same as yours.

      me and my boyfriend dated for 2 months and 6 days then he broke up with me on a text message. he didnt take my calls or nothing. (i only really tried that actual day)

      then 2 months later he called me but it hung up after like 1 ring….so i called him back and we talked and decided to hang out. when i went to his house, i was so confident and sexy (not really my clothes just my personality)
      we talked and at first he said he called me on speed dial by accident then later he said its cuz he missed me. well we got back together but only for 2 weeks. he wasnt ready but…

      (3-4 months later)

      NOW we just got back together after being friends for a little while. we talked talked for like a couple weeks and hung out and stuff. and now we go back out again. and its wonderful. a lot can happen over 6 months. i really love him and he says he feels the same and i believe it.

      give it time. time is the solution. trust me it took forever to get where we are now.

  24. QUESTION:
    Did an ex boyfriend want you back after breaking up w/ you?????
    has a bf ever broken up w/ you and you tried to get him back by pursuing him (calling/texting/e-mailing/ect) only to be shot down… but then when you completly stopped trying and left him alone… he wanted you back???

    1. how long were you together?
    2. how long did you use the above methods to try to get him back and how often (daily)?
    3. how long did it take of you leaving him alone for him to take notice and want you back?

    my bf of 2 months broke up w/ me almost 2 weeks ago. i have tried endlessly to contact him w/ no real success. i am now planning to just totally leave him alone and wonder if he will take notice miss me & want me back. the one did we did speak last wednesday we almost got back together… got close anyway…. but then he talked to his stupid jealous overprotective brother and changed his mind. Maybe a little space and REAL risk of losing me is what he needs?

    any input & your experience would be really appreciated.

    • ANSWER:
      Yes, this has also happened to me. I went out with the guy for 3 years, was very much in love, and treated him very good. For the last 2 years, he hasn’t made me very happy, but I continually tried to make it work. Finally we broke up, although it was a mutual decision, it was his idea. I was very sad and hurt for a few months. I tried at first to get back together, but he just shot me down. Instead of continuing to hurt myself by feeling rejected, I set in my mind to move on with my life. It took me a few months, eventually I met someone new and went out on a date. He found out about the date by accident, and has been trying hard to get me back ever since. Unfortunately for him, it is now too late. I have moved on. I have realized that I was unhappy with him for a long time, and if I took him back, it would probably end up in another break up sooner or later. So I decided to just move on with my life without him. I think the decision was a good one for me. Best of luck to you. Keep in mind, some guys only want what they can’t have. I think that is what happened in my case.

  25. QUESTION:
    How to get someone back after you break up?
    My question is simple, I just want to know ideas on how to re-spark a relationship. My boyfriend and I just broke up, and it was a great relationship, but things got a little to fast and scary, but both really want to continue but it seems to be to much to fast with everything in our lives. So we put a hold on thing, and doing the friend thing, but both are really miserable, but he really think we need to have time, but is really confused by this too, and so am I. Anyone have any ideas suggestions, little romantic things to do to re-spark stuff?

    • ANSWER:
      To be honest with you, putting a spark back in a relationship will only be a temporary fix. In other words, once the spark wears off, you will break up again for the same reason that you did initially. Playing the friend game is not going to work unless you intend to stay as friends, been there done that. You guys really seem to like each other, so take it slow, its hard to tell from the post whether you guys just didnt have the time for each other or what.

  26. QUESTION:
    has anyone ever got back with there girl or boyfriend after they broke up with you?
    my girlfriend said that we need a break and wanted to go back to being friends becuz she was too bizzy at uni and work and had no time but i still wonder if there is ever a chance to get her back

    has anyone done this have you gotten back with someone after they broke up with you and how did you do it did they ask or did out
    please be specific on how it happen and are you as happy or in love as you were before i still love her but i just need to know

    serious answers please
    we’re both 22 and she said she needed a break a month ago i know it won’t happen straight away but will it ever

    • ANSWER:
      me and my husband took a break when i told him i needed time to get my stuff straight soo he waited for me and now 4 years later where still married and have a son! sooo it could happen

      then again girls say they need a break when they want to let you down easy

  27. QUESTION:
    Getting back together with an ex-boyfriend after many break ups?Slightly long..but i really need help?
    10 POINTS I PROMISE!!!!!

    Me and my boyfriend have known each other since freshman year of high school and have been dating since then.From then till now we’ve broken up at least 10 maybe more times.The first 5 were silly reasons such as him not talking enough etc,but i was 14 at the time so that’s not a big issue and neither of us dwell on that.The relevant problems between us started sophomore year-summer transitioning to junior year.The first major thing that happened was me kissing his best friend(i still and always will regret and feel really bad about this).We weren’t dating and i was just looking for fun i guess and his actions toward me were saying he didn’t want to be w/me(talking about getting girls number.etc) and he just happened to stumble upon me and his friend kissing.and later i found out he was going to tell me how much he wanted to be with me and he probably would have said he loved me..anyways he got mad and i felt bad and apologized like crazy and that incident made me realize how much i loved him(we weren’t serious until this point)and i told him i loved him for the first time.He of course couldn’t and didn’t say it back.We started junior year and i told him we should probably not be so close cause i didn’t want to hurt him.He fought it for a while then i said never mind and he said we should just be friends because he thought i was done w/him.he ended up dating some chick and it drove me crazy and i ended up breaking then up(w/little effort)but i also had a boyfriend.Both of us admit we dated them to get over each other.So things go smoothly for a while then he starts ignoring me and choosing his friends over me etc.and i openly tell him about what hes doing he says im over-reacting..then there was a myspace incident w/this random girl.He said he was just messing around.I forgave him since that was his first ever offense.Then we start have more and more disagreements and it escalates to us finally breaking up because it wasn’t working.During our fight i took up a friendship w/ another one of his friends but it was just flirting.after we broke up i ended up kissing his friend but again i was single.And while i was being friends with his friend he started talking to some other Chick from myspace,flirting.then after about a couple weeks of us breaking up we randomly end up kissing which bring back feelings and we get back together.things go ok but we break up again for many reasons,myspace drama,lack of affection on his part,etc(btw im the one who broke up w/him all these times except the last one)then a while passes we get back together but maybe a week passes before i cheat on him w/the same friend i kissed last.I hide this for a long time but finally come clean because i feel bad.More things happen but we manage to stay together for 1 1/2 this time until the end of senior year.there’s still a little tension but we work through it.Finally i broke up with him on new years or 2010-2011 after months of telling him in falling out of love w/him.Since then we’ve had little romance here and there and stuff but i told him i just want to be friends..he’s still determined to be w/me but im not sure.I find it hard to trust him because of his constant lying to me in my face and every time he does something i find out from his friends.never from him.He’s apologized and i forgive him to a point but one thing im sure of is that i care about him.Im not sure if i should give this more time since we both have drastically matured and we both realize a lot of things and stuff.Should i try to be w/him,be friends or just let him go?

    • ANSWER:
      I think it’s time to move on and find happiness separately with other people

  28. QUESTION:
    Break up/Get back together question..?
    I was reading this on wikihow, steps on how to break up with a boyfriend and the last one really made me think…
    I took my boyfriend back after cheating on me/treating me like dog poop, a couple of times.. now i am wondering if i am f***** stupid?
    Do you agree with wikihow? Or do you think you should take someone back after you break up?

    ***from wikihow***

    6.
    Step 6

    Hold your ground. Once you have broken up, never go back to that relationship. Remember, you broke up with your boyfriend for a reason, so don’t forget it. Don’t be convinced that your boyfriend has changed in such a short period of time, because chances are, he hasn’t.
    *****SORRY I DID NOT REALIZE IT POSTED TO MARRIAGE AND NOT SINGLES/DATING*****
    even though we are common law married..?

    • ANSWER:
      get with his friend.

  29. QUESTION:
    My boyfriend and I got back together in May after a bad break up. How can he show me that he is dedicated.?
    We broke up after he got back from Iraq, because he had promised a girl that he had strong feelings for ever since high school that if she ever wanted to give them a chance he would drop anything to be with her. Take in mind that he is now 23. So in turn he broke up with me to be with her. During that relationship he moved in with her and proposed to her. That was a Five month relationship. He and I got back together after many discussions and talks with him explaining why he did what he did and trying to get my trust back. He tells me everyday now that he cares about me a lot and always tells me he loves me. He goes out of his way to make me happy and is very mindful of my feelings toward what he does. He has done everything possible to regain himself and my trust, but how can he show me that he is dedicated to our relationship and making it work no matter what may come? How can he show me that he would not just drop what we have worked for at the drop of a dime?

    • ANSWER:
      it sounds and it looks that you want a guarantee. do write your own conditions on a piece of paper and have him sign it. for more official status have the signature approved by a notary. that is the half joke part. the serious part is “we simply do not have a guarantee on anything in life –specially on love matters. so live with it day by day, month to month –and see and feel how it goes. as the Chinese say — 1000 miles route begins by taking a first step — the rest is details. good luck to both.

  30. QUESTION:
    how do you attract back your ex boyfriend? after breaking up with you?
    i recently got dumped by my boyfriend, because he said he wanted time for himself and he didnt need no one to be questioning him about anything he does in his life. This all started when we had a baby together, he doesnt want to be responsible, i dont understand why.

    Ive changed my self, my style, my looks, my friends, and my attitude just for him., and he did for a few months, but he couldnt resist going back to his friends and hanging out and getting high. We dont live together.

    but i was wondering, is there anything i can do? I hate being the single mother, when he can help me, but instead his with his friends living the single life, while im home taking care of my 18 month old daughter.

    im 22, and so is he.

    • ANSWER:
      err…move on. really are you insane? a pot head makes a good father to your kid? you want child support..there are government agencies.

  31. QUESTION:
    How to bring the magic back into a relationship after a break up?
    My boyfriend recently broke up with me during a moment of anger and a few hours later realized that he made a mistake. I accepted his apology, but now my feelings aren’t the same as they were before. I don’t feel the same magic that I did prior to the break up. How do I get those feelings back?

    • ANSWER:
      You might want to visit this blog. It contain some valuable information regarding your problem that you might be able to take away from

      http://www.mindchic.com

  32. QUESTION:
    How do i get my boyfriend to take me back after i broke up with him and broke his heart?
    I broke up with him because i thought i wanted to be single. But i didn’t realize what i had until it was gone. He and i were very much in love.. we lived together and dated for 2 years.. we were practically married. I bailed on the relationship because i felt i was too young and missed partying and drinking and being able to do what i wanted.. after being single for two months i realized that in the end i missed having my best friend/ boyfriend there to just lay around and watch tv with… i realized i made a huge mistake and called him immediately and apologized.. now we have been pretty much back together except for the fact that he found out i hooked up w someone while we were broken up..it hurt him even more and he says he couldn’t take me back because of it.. but we still tell each other we love each other and talk all day..and hangout and all that.. how do i get him to forgive me? i just want it to go back to how it was. i really wanna spend my life with him.

    • ANSWER:
      I think the best thing you can do in this situation is to be brutally honest with him. Have a conversation with him, where you tell him why you broke up with him, what you were afraid of, and what you realized. You need to explain to him what you were feeling, if he loves you, he will hear you out. You talking yourself out, will help him trust you completely again. The thing is when you are young, and the real thing happens it is natural to get scared of your feelings, and the first thing you want to do is run. Maybe you should tell him that when you hooked up with someone, you realized that the only person you actually care about was him. That he should not worry about what happened, even though it makes sense why he would be so upset with it, but the outcome…. and the outcome is that you love him. How can you go forward with someone, if something is holding you back. And what was holding you back, the fact that you thought you were missing out on the single life. You realized your mistake. This is part of becoming who you are supposed to be and figuring out what you want in life and what people you want to surround yourself with. The course of true love is never smooth. Going over hurdles only makes it stronger. You need to see potential in each others flaws. Relationships and marriage involve negotiations. Remember communication is key….

  33. QUESTION:
    Should I get back with my ex boyfriend after what he did?
    Here are the facts:

    I just turned 18

    We’ve been together for 11months. A very happy relationship with no major problems (no commitment issues, no cases of cheating). I very much value sex, so I told him that I wasn’t ready yet. We do everything but intercourse. Before our relationship, he has had sexual experience with 2 hookers, which I wholeheartedly accepted since there was no emotional attachment whatsoever.

    He broke up with me. I don’t know why. I chased after him, and eventually stopped since he said that “If you love me you’d let me go”

    3 weeks after the break up, while I was still picking up the pieces. He posts a new profile picture in facebook with another girl. Apparently they are on a boat and are cuddling. It tore me apart. When we had parties, they would make out in front of me! Imagine? This went on for about three months. I was struggling to recover.. I did. But I know I still love him all along. I never posted anything bitter on FB eversince. Just kept my cool, you know..

    Three months after the incident. After my party, which I invited him in. He starts sending me presents. And eventually asking me out to dinner. And just recently, confessed how miserable he is because he let me go. He told me how much he loves me, misses me, how it was a mistake, and that he regrets everything he’d done. I’d stay quiet and just tell him to stop being miserable for me. He continued expressing his love and regret during his own party which I attended to. And there I asked him if he had sex with this other girl.

    He said yes. But he still haven’t forgotten me. And I asked him if he thinks about me during those times, how could he not care about how I would feel. Knowing that he was the one who broke my heart.

    They had sex. Everything. And it really tore me apart because. Before the break up, I planned to lose my virginity to him during our anniversary since we were 11months then. I really want it to be special.

    And now he comes back to me… with this.

    He said he thought he was inlove with the girl.

    I know I still love him, but obviously not like before. I’d love to take him back, but it burdens me.. what he has done. It’s like he disrespected me (kissing infront of me, posting new pictures, only 3 weeks after the break up).. I’m disgusted.

    Now, he said he won’t give up.

    What would I do?

    I feel stupid because I allowed him to hug me and kiss me on the cheek and forehead after a couple of talks. And I agree to go out with him for dinner and coffee. I’m being nice around him like nothing happened. He’s asked me how I felt before, and I told him I forgive him not because he deserves it, but because I just do. Am I too easy to get? I think I put my pride waay down. And until now I reply to his IMs and allow him to call. Ughh I dont know what to do :(

    Thank you for your patience and help :)

    • ANSWER:

  34. QUESTION:
    How do you get back at an ex boyfriend thats a total jerk to you after you break up?

    • ANSWER:
      $hit in his cereal.

  35. QUESTION:
    How do i get my boyfriend to go back out with after hes broke up with me for 2 weeks?
    He says he still loves and cares about me, also he thinks about me alto. What do i do?

    • ANSWER:

  36. QUESTION:
    How to get back into dating after break up with your first love?
    Me and my ex broke up 6 mths ago. I’ve realized why we broke up and I’m okay with it but I am having issues getting back into dating game. I feel like it shouldn’t be this hard yet each guy I’m dating doesn’t totally fit… People tell me I’m settling and yet I don’t even think I’m totally ready for a boyfriend but I don’t want to overlook something if it’s there… Any tips on getting back into the dating game?

    • ANSWER:
      in a relationship the key is dialogue and confidence to say we should not repress what we think and feel in order to improve the relationship, there is no perfection both have to compromise and understand…

  37. QUESTION:
    During a break-up my boyfriend briefly went back to his ex?
    My boyfriend and me had a whilrwind romance and moved in together after 6 months of being together. ( Yes bad idea) and after nearly a year of living together we split up coz we were argueing too much.
    When we first got together his ex ( who was 16 at the time and incredibly childish) started to try and cause trouble and used to try and stalk me to scare me coz she claimed he cheated on her with me. ( Could be true but even his mum said she was obsessed with him and my boyfriend couldn’t get rid of her).

    Anyway after a 6 week break my boyfriend came back to me after crying his eyes out and declaring his love. Now things are better than ever. We’ve been back together for one month but last week his ex decided to start messaging me on facebook saying he’d gone back to her and was saying he loved her and everything. He at first denied it, but then gave in and admitted that they did meet up a couple of times and kissed but they weren’t really back together and it made him realise how much he still really loved me. However, she claims they had sex. She knows that I’m a little insecure because my boyfriend will have told her but especially about sex because I lost my virginity to him.

    My boyfriend has pleaded with me to believe they didn’t sleep together but in the back of my mind I feel sick incase they did. I’ve seen facebook messages and I can see they were just talkin and nothin seriously flirty. He was also diagnosed with depression and pleuresy ( somethin with his lungs) and said he just wanted someone to talk about because he was extremely down over the break up. Even his friends ( who didn’t know he was back with his ex) said he couldn’t stop talking about me and makin himself down because we split.

    My boyfriend says she’s just trying to split us up because I’ve seen angry texts saying ” omg thanks for lying to me and don’t come back to me when you realise what you really want” – which is evidence for jealousy. I just don’t know what to do because I want this to all go away because we were so happy!!

    • ANSWER:
      Pleurisy can be a serious illness, I’m not surprised he needed someone to talk to, What he did between the time your relationship ended and the time it recommenced is really none of your business, you were not in a relationship with him then. Its obvious that he doesn’t love her otherwise he would not have come back to you. What you have to do is, to decide whom you trust more, I think that I would favour the boyfriend, but he shouldn’t be discussing his sex life with you with his ex.

  38. QUESTION:
    How do I get my ex boyfriend back after 2 years of being broken up?
    We dated for 2 years and have been broken up for 2 years. I am still in love with him and we are on good terms. We see each other from time to time and have fun together. I rarely inititate contact with him he usually contacts me first. He knows I would take him back because 6 months ago I told him that I wanted to try again and that I still love him. At that time he did sayt that he would always love me but he hasn’t ever said he wants me back. The other night we met for dinner and had a great time-he even kissed me. What should I do?

    • ANSWER:
      Take it slow, tell him you love it when he calls, make sure you always look at your sexiest & pray he will see your love for him..

  39. QUESTION:
    My boyfriend briefly went back to his ex during our break up, is she causin more trouble though?
    My boyfriend and me had a whilrwind romance and moved in together after 6 months of being together. ( Yes bad idea) and after nearly a year of living together we split up coz we were argueing too much.
    When we first got together his ex ( who was 16 at the time and incredibly childish) started to try and cause trouble and used to try and stalk me to scare me coz she claimed he cheated on her with me. ( Could be true but even his mum said she was obsessed with him and my boyfriend couldn’t get rid of her).

    Anyway after a 6 week break my boyfriend came back to me after crying his eyes out and declaring his love. Now things are better than ever. We’ve been back together for one month but last week his ex decided to start messaging me on facebook saying he’d gone back to her and was saying he loved her and everything. He at first denied it, but then gave in and admitted that they did meet up a couple of times and kissed but they weren’t really back together and it made him realise how much he still really loved me. However, she claims they had sex. She knows that I’m a little insecure because my boyfriend will have told her but especially about sex because I lost my virginity to him.

    My boyfriend has pleaded with me to believe they didn’t sleep together but in the back of my mind I feel sick incase they did. I’ve seen facebook messages and I can see they were just talkin and nothin seriously flirty. He was also diagnosed with depression and pleuresy ( somethin with his lungs) and said he just wanted someone to talk about because he was extremely down over the break up. Even his friends ( who didn’t know he was back with his ex) said he couldn’t stop talking about me and makin himself down because we split.

    My boyfriend says she’s just trying to split us up because I’ve seen angry texts saying ” omg thanks for lying to me and don’t come back to me when you realise what you really want” – which is evidence for jealousy. I just don’t know what to do because I want this to all go away because we were so happy!!

    I’m 19 and he’s 20 btw

    • ANSWER:
      It does not matter whether she was causing trouble,your b/f must still have strong feelings for her to go back to her.You are not interested if they had sex or not.Get rid of him,he will not change.

  40. QUESTION:
    How do you get your boyfriend to come back to you after he breaks up with you?
    Me and my boyfriend have broken up. we always argue and yell at each other but i dont want us to end our relationship. so he broke up with me because i didnt want him to get off the phone. so he found a reason to be single and away from me for a while but i want us to be together. please help me. i want us to work things out.

    • ANSWER:
      I’m sorry this isn’t what you want to hear but you can’t get him to come back to you, just give him space and maybe he will realise he made a mistake and ask to get back with you.

      Good luck =]

  41. QUESTION:
    I broke up with my boyfriend after 8 years now i want him back?
    5 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend because i wasnt happy and needed time to myself. I moved out of his parents house and back in with my dad. For about 3 months he tryed so hard to get me back was always wanting to spend time together n really started changing for me coz we hardly did anything that was that main problem. I was totally not interested in gettting back with him at the time coz i needed to find myself, i still had feelings for him and cared about him heaps but just wanted to get out there n explore life. Anyways after about 3 or 4 months he suddenly gave up trying didn’t call me as much and was just plain giving up coz i didn’t want anything. Stupid me after those 3 months or wateva i have finally realised that he had changed and had been trying so hard and i gave him nothing now i regret what i did soooo bad and all i have been doing is crying because he said he can’t commit to anyone at the moment we fight to much and he’s sick of being pissed of every day and he can’t handle it anymore, and i always get angry at him coz apparently he does things i use to get mad at when we where going out i.e: drinking. he said he let me do anything i wanted but he never had a life and coulden’t do anything coz i use to get angry at him all the time. Im so confused as to why that wasn’t a issue when he was trying to get back with me but now all ov a sudden he has just changed. I have now realised the pain i have put him through the last 5 months and i cannot stop crying and im just completely heart broken and cannot forgive myself for taking him back when he was trying. I feel like my whole world is comming to a end im just devistated and never knew how much he ment to me until now. Do you think he will ever come back after 8 years? does he need space? please help im so lost and confused.

    • ANSWER:
      Better start looking for a new boyfriend.

  42. QUESTION:
    How can I get my ex boyfriend back after I lied about being pregnant?
    Me&well now ex boyfriend broke up because we was having sex to much. Im 17 and his is 21… We did that because were both goin into the ministry field, but I missed my period and took a test and it was positive. I told him and we decided to get back together. Then after that I took more test and they said positive. but one afternoon we got into a argument and he decided that we needed a break because he wanted us to get along if we was having a baby.. well the next day. I went to the doctor and they said I wasnt pregnant. I started panicing because I wanted to stay in our relationship. So I lied and told him I was… then I felt bad 10 mins after telling him I was and told him the truth face to face. Now he wont talk to me or have nothing to do with me and said he will never date me again because I lied…but that is the first time I have ever lied to him…I know what I did was horriable but I just wanna earn his trust back and want him to know I would never do that again… please anwer nicely

    God Bless…
    & I have said sorry and he accepted it, but he said he could never trust me again..but I just want him to know that Im not that kind of girl…
    & I have said sorry and he accepted it, but he said he could never trust me again..but I just want him to know that Im not that kind of girl…

    • ANSWER:

  43. QUESTION:
    How to get my boyfriend back after i cheated?
    my boyfriend broke up with me after he found out i cheated. I dont need to hear how wrong i am or how much i deserve the outcome, i just want advice. I finally gave in and called him after three day, we ended up talking for hours and i cried for hours. i just want him back…i want him to understand how much he matters to me. He says he needs time to forgive although he may never forgive but this is so hard for me. Give me advice, let me know how to cope. What can i do to let him see that us breaking up is not the solution! Im asking in this section because i feel that i usually get the best advice out of it!

    • ANSWER:
      you broke the trust he had in you, you might not never get it back and if you do it will be hard for him to forget could take years women stop cheating

  44. QUESTION:
    How long it takes for an ex boyfriend to call after break up?
    Ok, so my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago. First of all let me say we are both in our late 30s. Anyway, he broke up with me due to a stupid lie that I gave him, but it was only due to it having to do with my family that I later admited to him. Ok, I admit I shouldnt have lied; but for him to tell me he was through with me and that he was never going back with me and that I had to let go (all this by text) was a little to the extreme. We were just dating for 3 months and he was already all in love and even gave me a diamond ring a week before. So a week later I text him back apologizing to him for calling me an ASS&^^%, by text when he replied the “never taking me back etc. etc. I was just upset of how immature he was acting up. After all this time, I gave it a lot of thought and realized maybe it was a sign for me to let go. He did show many signs of jealousy and I am a very independent woman. Now, I am curious why he wont call after all this time. I even thought that he could use an excuse like picking up stuff he has at my place and he wont even do that. I am ready to let go of him, but its sad that it has to end like that. After all, he did treat me to nice place and all, but I am hurt that he would think that I would hurt him in any way when I promised him that I would never cheat on him or treat him bad. So, my question is. Is there hope of this guy ever calling back or could it be that he used this an excuse to get out of this relationship? By the way, he is a Gemini and many of my friends say that they are bipolar! And so happens that his brother is bipolar. Oh Lord, could he really be? I really need help from strangers on this. If I ask family members all they will say, good thing its over now! But I just need closure!
    FYI–in the begining of relationship he would break up with me a lot and leave me in shock like now to a couple days later receive emails from him asking for forgiveness.

    • ANSWER:
      You haden’t been dating long enough to form a tight attachment and maybe the lie was just the final straw. He’s not coming back, he;s not going to call, let it go.

  45. QUESTION:
    How do i get my dog back if my ex boyfriend got her registered in his name?
    Not too long ago while i was dating this guy, i had moved into an apartment where i couldnt have animals. He voulenteered to dog sit for me in the meantime. I had agreed,and given him over a hundred dollars worth of supplies for her. I hadnt had this dog very long, there for having no vet records or legal papers stating my ownership. After I had broken up with him, he told me he’d gotten my dog registered in his grandparents name, and refused to give her back. The only proof of the dog being mine is the word i have of ten+ people. if i were to approach this in court, what would be my possibilities for getting her back? she means the world to me, and i really would love to get her back.
    sorry for not explaining furthur. i had her for a few months, and then a tornado had occured and wiped out my home, being the reason why i had to move, and why he was watching her until i could move into a more perminant pet friendly home. she was given to me by a couple on craigslist. therefor, no records.

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  46. QUESTION:
    Me and my boyfriend have broken up after 2 and half years, suggestions on how to pick myself back up again?
    My friends are all worried about me and they are taking me out tonight.
    i don’t want to waste my life crying and mourning over it, what can i do to get back out there?

    • ANSWER:
      Only time heals…

      In the meantime, get out of the house… Go out with friends. See movies, visit new places, try new things… Try to live your life. The absolute worst thing you can do is just sit at home and dwell on the subject… Maybe you’ll even meet a new guy at some point while you’re out having fun.

      Live your life and have fun doing it! Life is really too short to be depressed…

      Good luck.

  47. QUESTION:
    How do get your man back after your break-up?
    My boyfriend and I were together for about a year and a half and it all came to an end. I am still madly in love with him and we still see each and talk almost everyday. Everytime I bring up the “couple” thing he acts as if it’s not an option, but we continually act like a ” couple” w/o the title…

    • ANSWER:
      Well if you are sleeping with him then you wont ever “get your man back:”

      The whole milk without paying for the cow thing.

      Anyway, you only want him so bad because he is acting like it isnt an option.

  48. QUESTION:
    How can I get my boyfriend back….he break up with me yesterday? :( ?
    Wel I think I sorta messed upp with my boyfriend. Last nite we went out too dinner, and he oferred to pay for my food an I called the police on him. He got real mad at me an so did the cops an they then told me to only call 911 when there is a serious emergency. After that I said sorry to my boyfriend, an he glared at me, an I didn’t say nothing after that. i ordered sum wine to drink, a real tall glass of it, and my boyfriend said hi to this other girl, and i get so mad that i dumped the whole glass of wine over his head…an he ask if i was crazy an the girl he said hi to looked at me like i was weird and i started to cry. then a real pretty waitress lady walked by an gave us our food and my boyfriend glanced at her once when she gave us our food, and i get so mad that i dump my whole plate of food on his head…an he said he ain’t never going to take me on a date any time soon anymore. i started to cry afterr that an he get real mad an said sorry to the waitress and the girl he say hi to an then i smacked him cause he talked to those girls again! he knows he’s supposed to only have eyes for me.

    on the way back, he don’t talk to me. i sat there in the back seat (not the front seat cuz i didn’t wanna sit by him cuz of the way he treat me) and cried, just softly at first, and then started bawling an he yelled at me! so i scream at him and tell him he gotta treat his girlfriend better an he said he will after i learn how to control myself an not spill food and wine on his hair right after he took a shower and used his nice new shampoo. then we got home, an he broke up with me, but ive been living with him for awhile, so i had no home, so i just spent the night in the front yard an in the morning i knock on the door and asked him to be with me again cuz i dont wanna sleep outside no more. he say no. wat should i do? :(

    • ANSWER:
      LMFAO AHAHAHAHA.

      There is some SERIOUSLY creative trolling going tonight. What the hell.

      I laughed so hard. I read this all in the voice a girl who speaks like a 5 year old. There are tears coming out of my eyes. TEARS.

  49. QUESTION:
    Boyfriend crush is back on after we broke-up!!!?
    So I started out going out with this guy Caleb.We went out for 3 and a-half months but then it got boring so we broke-up.I was fine for a while until we started talking again and now I remember how much I loved him.I think he want to get back together too but is afraid of rejection,just like me.Guys does it bug you if a girls friend asks you out for her.Would you rather them ask you out in person?Help me out.
    I am 11 years old dont lecture me about shallow!
    he broke up with me.

    • ANSWER:
      First of all my darling little sister…you don’t know what love is! I think you are just boy crazy!!!!!! lol I love you! At your age you having a friend asking a guy out for you is just normal. So go ahead and do it.. second of all most of this is just plain silly! At yalls age asking questions about stuff like this and soliciting advice from people like you are is going to get you answers from people who are ten times yalls age and ten times more experienced, therefore not really in the realm of what kind of advice you need. So the best advice I can give you is that you need to just chill out and let nature take its course!

  50. QUESTION:
    How to get my confidence back up after my boyfriend?
    I’ve just broken up with my boyfriend, and he said he’s going because he doesn’t find me attractive anymore. I had no confidence before I got with him, and I dropped nearly two dress sizes while I was with him to try and make myself feel more comfortable, but it’s not working. I feel crap…all the time. Any tips on how to feel better about myself again? …thank you

    • ANSWER:
      Any goals you have , accomplish them. That is a confidence booster when you complete something , whether it be taking a dance class or starting a new hobby.

      As far as superficial confidence. I feel that if I am looking my best , i am feeling good. whatever that may be for you. Doing your hair nice, buy some new clothes.

      But I feel that once you work on how you feel on the inside and accompish some goals then yoir overall confidence will come back.


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